Of course, I love it when one of my children or grandchildren show up for an overnight visit, but that just doesn’t happen often enough.  However, I also welcome a visit from their friends.  Seth’s friend Doug lives in San Francisco, but visits his mother’s grave in Boston every year on her birthday, and stays with me.

He always brings me a gorgeous orchid plant, and this year was not an exception.  But he also brought his significant other, Luci, who was visiting him from Ecuador.

Luci’s native language is Spanish, but she’s working on her English, and although Doug’s Spanish is pretty basic and mine is non-existent, we managed to have a lot of laughs.

And my two orchids from Doug’s previous visits are happy to be a threesome. 

Long ago (and I mean long ago!) there was a memorable (to me) Sunday funnies page cartoon in the Pittsburgh  Press. It showed two odd characters with a quart of ice cream.  They had just discovered that there was a fake bottom to the carton that from the outside made it appear that it contained much more ice cream than it did.

An ice cream fanatic myself, for a long time, I kept that cartoon—I’m not sure why.  I thought of it the other day when I realized that the box of Kleenex I had just opened contained single-ply tissues.  Who ever heard of the brand name Kleenex without double-ply tissues?!!

Is there nothing we can count on now-a-days?!!

Harvard graduate student workers are on strike.  Because the professor of the course I am auditing did not want to cross their picket line, she moved our class to a building off the main campus.  Fortunately for me, a student in the class who mistakenly went to the regular classroom alerted me to the change and he and I walked off campus together to the substitute location.

He was fun to chat with as we walked, and he was extremely good looking!

I can’t believe I have a crush on a sophomore in college.  He is from San Francisco. I think he said he was a science major, but really enjoying our history course.  We chatted all the way to class.  We were late and each grabbed a seat, but not near each other.

I am sure he has forgotten this 80-something.  I have NOT forgotten him.

I was determined to add nothing to my quite sufficient possessions in my current apartment.  But I couldn’t really leave my TV on the floor.   So, I ordered an item (hard to describe) that would hold the TV and some other possessions.  Of course, the website said, “easy to assemble”. 

You’d think that by now I’d know better.

So, I hired the building’s handyman and even with the proper tools, it took him an hour to put it together.  But the new item that is hard to describe looks really nice, and the TV looks quite good sitting on it.

That’s it.  I’m finished.

(For now.)

The 61^st annual three-day Head of the Charles regatta is one of Boston’s not-to-be-missed events, attracting about 400,000 fans along its route, including me. A mind-boggling number (approximately 12,000) of rowers participate in the largest 3-day regatta in the world.

And my new apartment’s balcony that overlooks the River is the hottest ticket (although it seats a maximum of three fans.) 

One of the beautiful elm trees along the River (sadly) had to be be taken down.  But that gave the three of us, an unimpeded view.  The 10-15 second intervals between boats allowed for some great catching-up conversation.

We are pretty old, but we are optimists and already have marked our calendar for the 62^nd regatta, just twelve months away.

I think giving up driving is on the mind of lots of 80-somethings and/or their kids.  Children worry about their elderly parents on the road (hurting themselves OR others).  But public transportation is easy in Cambridge, Massachusetts, and I made the decision to give up my car because finding on-street parking was, shall-we-say, inconvenient.

The first real challenge came with my doctor’s appointment this week, easy by car.  By public transportation not-so-easy.  I gave myself plenty of time—a good thing because the walk from the bus I took was about fifteen minutes (although it seemed longer).  On the way back, a couple of sweet high school kids wanted to help, and they made sure I knew the best place to get off the bus.  That, too, was a relatively long walk, but I rewarded myself when I got home…

With a nap.

I said good-bye to my car when I gave it to my grandson Grady two months ago.  And I have been regularly congratulating myself on my easy adjustment—no need to look for a parking space and no worry that I will forget where I finally got a spot on any particular day

It’s also been an easy bus ride to and from my supermarket.

Until Tuesday. 

It seemed a lot of things on Tuesday’s list were a bit weighty or bulky, and a backpack and two heavy bags full of groceries were, shall we say, hard to manage on and off the bus and on the very short block from the bus to my apartment.

I’ve resisted ordering groceries online because I like to inspect each orange or banana or whatever.

My future groceries, however, will be delivered.  I can learn to live with an imperfect apple or two.

I couldn’t find anyone I know to go with me to see “Eleanor,” a play about FDR’s wife, that was playing to sold-out audiences in Central Square in Cambridge and about to end its run. 

So, probably for the first time ever, I bought a ticket for just me.

It was a little strange listening to the pre-curtain chatter of everyone else, but once the play started, it was fine, and I am glad I saw it.

But–I felt a bit sad as I walked home in a light drizzle because the only person I could discuss the play with

Was me.

I think I have a working new TV.  It arrived yesterday in a nice big carton that I managed to get into the elevator of my apartment building.  Rather than take a chance on installing it myself (which was supposed to be easy), I had Comcast send someone. 

The new TV was working when the adorable, Turkish-born repairman left my apartment a few minutes ago. I’m almost afraid to try it, but if by chance it doesn’t work, he did give me his direct number.

I’ve had a lot of, shall I say, “start-up issues” since my apartment building was doomed, now almost two years ago, but somehow, this feels like the beginning of really settling in.

At last.

Whether one is a huge TV fan or not, one needs a working TV. 

I remember when, as a kid, a neighbor got the first TV on our block. Not long after that, my parents gave in and bought a monster-sized piece of furniture that played records, radio and TV.  And I have never been without a TV since then. 

Is anybody?

So when my 2-month old TV from Costco wasn’t working the other night, I was on the phone with the “repair” people and while reading something to them from the back of the TV, I knocked it off the bookcase and shattered the screen!

As I write this, I await a delivery of another TV.

Hopefully, it will have a longer “shelf-life”.