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Ageism (Continued)

Am I An Ageist?

I just finished reading Ageism Unmasked—Exploring Age Bias and How to End It, a recent book by Tracy Gendron, chair of the Department of Gerontology at Virginia Commonwealth University. It was insightful and instructive. 

And it made me wonder if I am an ageist. 

Have I bought birthday cards that reinforce negative stereotypes of ageing? (Are there any that don’t?)  Have I contributed to the anti-ageing market (whatever that is)?  Yes, I have bought skin creams and toners, yet years ago, my young grandson said, “Grammy, why is your neck wrinkled like a skeleton?”  Still, I use them.

The other day I was chatting with a contemporary while waiting for an elevator.  A workman in the building walked by. “How are you doing girls?” he said.  I didn’t respond but maybe next time I’ll try “Just fine sonny”.

Gendron reminds us that from the moment of our birth, we are old-people-in-training.   

We have a lot to learn.


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Karen Blaha

Here in NC the older men think it's cute to address me as "young lady". As in "How can I help you young lady?" Makes me so angry that I shot back one day, I told him he could call me Karen or Mrs. B or even Ms . But that I was 75 years old and worthy of respect. He later quit the jewelry store so I don't know if he learned his lesson. Maybe it was overkill? Karen

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