Years ago, a 70-something friend announced that she was done giving dinner parties. Eating out was “so much easier,” she said. It didn’t occur to me then that my generation would feel that way some day. But that day has come.
For me, eating out is not much of a pleasure. Watching all the gluten-eating people at my table order from a full menu of delicious choices while I look for the few items that are marked GF (gluten-free) takes away the thrill of not having to cook. Watching my friends chomp on beautiful desserts while I can only choose the lemon sorbet—not much fun. (I have to admit that things used to be much worse.)
So here’s my compromise. We invite friends to dinner at our home. But instead of the four or five courses that I used to serve, I offer three. I don’t use as much butter (much to Peter’s dismay) and I find that simple can be delicious when the ingredients are fresh.
Last week, we had company for dinner twice. Peter and our guests loved both meals.
I could eat everything.