Two Proud Mothers
A Change of Routine

Happiness

In his famous 1943 paper, Abraham Maslow suggested that we have basic needs such as food and shelter. Once those needs have been met, we have psychological needs, self-actualization needs, etc. If you Google Maslow Hierarchy of Needs, you will get about 4,530,000 results in 0.12 seconds and can learn much more about this.

 

My basic needs are quite well met. I am well-fed and sheltered. I have wonderful family and friends. All that is good. But lately, I've been thinking about what makes one day happier than another. For example, on Thursday, after an endless series of gloomy, damp, typical November days, the sun shone brilliantly. I could feel my happiness meter going up. On a scale of 1(miserable) to100(ecstatic), I went from about 75-85 when the clouds vanished.

 

Clouds giving way to sun gives me a feeling of well-being. The following also favorably affect my happiness score:

 

Event

Points

A really good night's sleep

10

A productive day at work

10

A call from one of our children

10

A call from one of our children who sounds happy

15

A dish of Starbucks coffee ice cream

20

 

Professor Maslow would probably turn over in his grave if he heard that Starbuck's Coffee Ice Cream topped my hierarchy of needs.

 

 

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ffxiv gil

we should keep a good mind every day,happiness is necessary in our daily life.and it can take us sucess

Freda

A wag of the dog's tail speaks volumes and puts the happiness meter way up!

Kate

I must remember to call mum and sound happy!

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