Resolutions as I Grow Older
August 23, 2009
On
the 372nd page of a book I don’t have, and maybe never did have, there
is a list of “Resolutions As I Grow Older”, written by someone with the
initials R.N.B. I have kept a copy of
that page for years because I thought it might come in handy some day.
Here
is an edited version of R.N.B.’s five resolutions for keeping friends as you
grow older.
1.
I
promise that I will not contact the same person every day so that no one ever will
say “It’s her again.”
2.
If
my memory isn’t what it used to be, I will keep a note of the things I talk
about with each person. “It’s not that
we forget our stories; we just forget to whom we have told them.”
3.
I
promise that I will make sure that in each conversation I let the other person
talk at least half the time, and when I do talk about me, it will be about the positive
things in my life rather than about my aches and pains.
4.
I
promise that I will take time to respond to the stories and feelings of others,
and not just rush on to talk about me.
5.
I promise that I will live in the present and
not go on about how great life used to be. I will read, watch and learn to have
new opinions about new subjects so that young and old alike will enjoy being
with me as much as I enjoy being with them.
My copy of R.N.B.’s
resolutions has been tucked in a drawer for years. The print is quite faded.
But the message is
ageless.
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